Thursday, January 6, 2011

ECED 13-" The Problem Checklist"

 PROBLEM CHECKLIST





Emotional Concerns
      feeling anxious or uptight
     excessive worrying
       not being able to relax
       feeling panicky
      unable to calm yourself down
       dwelling on certain thoughts or images
      fearing something terrible is about to happen
       avoiding certain thoughts or feelings
      having strong fears
       worrying about a nervous breakdown
      feeling out of control
       fears of being alone or abandoned
       feeling guilty
       having nightmares
       flashbacks
       troubling or painful memories
      missing periods of time - can’t remember
       trouble remembering things
       feeling numb instead of upset
       feeling detached from all or part of your body
       having obsessive/ruminating thoughts
       feeling unreal, strange or foggy

Behavioral and Physical Concerns
     not having an appetite
       having obsessive behaviors such as:
      hand-washing, checking, counting, etc.
      eating in binges
      self induced vomiting for weight control
    using laxatives for weight control
       eating too much
      eating too little

 Individual Problem Checklist
       feeling unmotivated
      loss of interest in many things
      having trouble concentrating
      having trouble making decisions
     feeling the future looks hopeless
      feeling worthless or like a failure
      being unhappy all the time
       dissatisfied with physical appearance
       feeling self critical or blaming yourself
       having negative thoughts
      crying often
       feeling empty
       withdrawing inside yourself
      thinking too much about death
      thoughts of hurting yourself
       thoughts of killing yourself
       frequent mood swings
       feeling resentful or angry
       feeling irritable or frustrated
      feeling rage
        feeling like hurting someone
       losing weight - how much?
       gaining weight - how much?
      avoiding being with people
      being tired and lacking energy
        excessive exercise

Behavioral and Physical Concerns Continued
       trouble finishing things
       cutting or harming self
       trouble sleeping
      trouble falling asleep
      early morning awakening
     sleeping too much
       sleeping too little
       number of hours I usually sleep:
     aggressive toward others
       impulsive reactions
      working too hard
      using alcohol too much
       being alcoholic
      using drugs
      driving under the influence
      blackouts - after drinking
      lack of exercise

Intimate Relationship Concerns
      feeling misunderstood in relationship
       not feeling close to partner
       trouble communicating with partner
      not trusting partner
      lack of respect by partner
       partner being secretive
       lack of fairness in relationship
       problems with dividing household tasks
       disagreeing about children
       lack of affection
       unsatisfactory sexual relationship
       lack of time together
       lack of shared interests
       lack of positive interaction
       lack of time with other couples
       jealousy in relationship frequent arguments
       not having leisure activities
       smoking cigarettes
       often spending in binges
       Have you ever felt you ought to cut down on your
       drinking or drug use? Yes No
       Have people annoyed you by criticizing your drinking
       or drug use? Yes No
       Have you ever felt bad or guilty about your drinking
       or drug use? Yes No
       Have you ever had a drink or used drugs first thing in
       the morning to steady your nerves or to get rid of a
      hangover? Yes No





      trouble resolving conflict
      partner being demanding and controlling
       partner putting you down
       violent arguments
       emotional abuse in relationship
       physical abuse in relationship
       sexual abuse in relationship
       partner having alcohol or drug problem
       self or partner having an affair
      feeling uncommitted to relationship
       wanting to separate
      discussing separating or divorce
       problems with in-laws
       problems with ex-partner
       problems with step parents
        children having special problems


Sexual Concerns
       worrying about getting pregnant
      having miscarriage(s)
       choice of birth control and/or abortion
       not able to become pregnant
       not enjoying sexual affection
      too tired to have sex
       too anxious to have sex
       feeling a lack of sexual desire
      wanting to have sex more often
     feeling neglected sexually


When Growing Up to Present Time
    being physically abused - by whom?
       being emotionally abused - by whom?
       being sexually abused - by whom?
       having an alcoholic parent - which?
      having a drug abusing parent - which?
     having a depressed parent - which?
     having a parent with emotional problems -
      which?
      having parents separate or divorce -
       your age at time of divorce?

Stresses During the Past Several Years
     death of family member or friend - who?
       birth or adoption of child
       self or family member hospitalized - who?
       moved/changed address
      being harassed or assaulted
       frequent family or couple arguments
      separation/divorce

ECED13-"happy thoughts" and "christmas for sale"

                    MY  HAPPY THOUGHTS


The reasons why I am always happy
-family and friends
-when I remember my salvation
-school


Hindrances
-lacking of time
-people that surrounds
-my self


Solutions
-believing yourself is great
-following Gods will
-thinking positively
-managing of time
-being honest and true
-loving others
-trusting others
-appreciating what we have



Christmas For Sale
essay


         Have you heard christmas carols?...
        Christmas is really near, people are celebrating the season but what is the mere reason of the season? is it because children have the new clothes, toys and Christmas bonus is here?
         Anyway christmas is an important season that happens once a year. Every October people are merry making, Ber months are the most precious months for many. But now a days people are disregards the meaning of Christmas. This season is sacred for lot of Christians they that God was born on Christmas day. See what was they doing people spending much money every christmas buying expensive things without acknowledging that God had given those blessings, look some children will feel bad if they received low "aguinaldos"from their sponsors. that's the reality of the Christmas season we celebrate but materialistic and unthankful for the birthday celebrator that provides everything just for man's Yuletide's  season merry making.